I experienced dualism when I was younger.  My grandmother went to the bank and received  more money than she requested. She then went back to the bank and returned the money to the teller.  According to (Broderick & Blewitt, 2015)    Dualism is a position of knowing right versus wrong. 

With multiplicity, I experienced my mother argue with he left siblings over personal issues and matters. They often would fight and not come to terms with a valid solution. (Biroderick & Blewitt, 2015) , stated that in a multiplicity stage that there maybe multiple view points that all have validity. 

As I begin to converse with my cousins (my peers) we all had a mutual respect for the thoughts of each other. I guess it was because of our experience of our mothers.  Broderick & Blewitt, 2015)